Thinking of getting a Goldendoodle but worried about ending up with a dog that’s too hyper—or barks all day? Here’s what you need to know before you bring one home.
What is a Goldendoodle’s general temperament?
Goldendoodles are known for being super friendly, outgoing, and people-loving. They love kids and are gentle with most people and other pets. If you want a dog that’s happiest being part of the action and greeting guests at the door, Goldendoodles fit the bill.
But there’s a catch: they’re definitely more energetic than their Bernedoodle cousins. Some Goldendoodles are pretty chill, but most tend to have more “go” in them. (A lot of this depends on the parents, but in general, expect them to be energetic.)
Calm or energetic? Here’s what to expect
It’s a bit of both, if I’m honest. Goldendoodles can sometimes be calm—especially after puppyhood—but overall, you should count on more energy compared to Bernedoodles.
They aren’t a “lay around all day” breed. Instead, these dogs want to be part of what’s happening. If you’re looking for a dog that’s perfectly content snoozing for hours while you relax, a Goldendoodle might leave you wishing they’d settle a little more often.
Meeting new people and new places
Goldendoodles are generally polite in new environments and with strangers. I’d say most handle meeting new people pretty well, with only a few acting skittish or jumpy when they are around new faces.
One big thing: if you haven’t trained them not to jump up, they might get a little overexcited when greeting people. That’s just their friendly personality shining through, but it can be a bit much at the front door.
Family life and social needs
Great with kids
Goldendoodles really shine in families with kids. They’re gentle and polite, although sometimes a little too excited in the first few minutes when the kids start playing. A little bit of energy and goofiness comes with the territory, but they usually settle in after the excitement.
Good with other pets
In my experience, Goldendoodles are great with other pets. They tend to be social with dogs, cats—you name it. Their easygoing attitude helps a lot with bringing them into a busy household.
How much attention do they need?
These are social dogs—big time. The more attention and interaction they get, the better they do. Goldendoodles want to be around people, and they thrive on regular social time. If you have company, they’d much rather be out mingling than shut in a bedroom.
If you’re gone all day or not home much, Goldendoodles might not be the best fit. They aren’t needy in a clingy way, but they don’t like being alone for long stretches.
Are Goldendoodles barkers?
Not typically. I don’t consider them yappy or nuisance barkers. They might bark a little when someone new comes by, but they aren’t the type to keep you and your neighbors up all night.
Can Goldendoodles be trained?
Goldendoodles are usually very easy to train. They want to please, are smart, and pick up routines quickly.
For potty training, I always suggest hanging bells on the doorknob. Every time you take them out, ring the bell. In addition, during the training process, grab the bell and take it out with you. Once they go potty outside them ring the bell and praise them. That’ll help them associate the bell with going potty even quicker. Eventually, they’ll learn to ring it themselves when they need to go out.
Another method some trainers swear by is tethering the puppy to you (on a leash around the house) so you can immediately take them outside when you notice they need to go. That takes a bit more effort, but it’s super effective if you’re committed.
I always recommend finding a reputable professional trainer—either based on friends’ recommendations or by checking online reviews. There are some not-so-great trainers out there, so choose wisely. If you’d rather do it yourself, there are online courses (like Baxter & Bella) that walk you through the basics with video instruction.
Goldendoodles do best with positive reinforcement—treats, praise, and patience. They’re sensitive dogs and usually shut down if you use harsh methods or punishment.
Do they adapt to routines?
Absolutely. Goldendoodles are quick to fall into your household’s schedule. They’ll get used to your rhythm and adapt easily—even if it’s different from the schedule they kept as puppies with us.
What are some common behavioral challenges?
There are a couple of issues I see most often:
- Separation anxiety—they really don’t like being alone, especially as puppies
- Nipping (mostly as puppies)
- Jumping when excited
Nothing unusual for a friendly, energetic pup, but worth keeping in mind.
What type of owner is a Goldendoodle best for?
Goldendoodles are perfect for active families, young kids, or pretty much anyone who’s going to include them in daily life. If you’ve got a busy household, a Goldendoodle will fit right in.
If you prefer a dog that’s a little more laid back—especially if you’re an older couple or don’t want to be out walking in all weather—a Bernedoodle might be a better fit.
How much exercise is enough?
Two to three walks a day is about right, or a fenced yard where they can run for about an hour a day. They don’t need to run marathons, but they do need regular daily exercise to stay balanced and happy.
Goldendoodles vs. Bernedoodles: what’s different?
The main difference is energy. Goldendoodles usually have more “go” than Bernedoodles, but I’ve met calm Goldendoodles and high-energy Bernedoodles, too. A lot depends on the parents. But if your top priority is a chill, easygoing dog, you’ll probably have better luck with a Bernedoodle.
Common myths about Goldendoodle temperament
Let’s bust a few myths:
- Goldendoodles are always calm and low-energy Not true! They often have high energy thanks to their golden retriever and poodle parents, and need plenty of exercise (especially as puppies).
- Their temperament is always predictable Breeders try for consistency, but Goldendoodles are a mix, so you might wind up with a super-chill pup or one with more drive.
- They are perfectly hypoallergenic While their poodle side makes them low shedding, no dog is completely hypoallergenic. Expect a range from low shedding to very low to non shedding (depending on generation). Even the non shedding ones, your gonna get a tiny bit at times. Maybe just a little ball of hair on occasion.
- They never develop behavioral problems Any dog can be anxious, barky, or nippy if not well socialized and trained. Goldendoodles are friendly, but they aren’t immune to issues if ignored.
- They’re easy to train because they’re smart Intelligence definitely helps, but they need positive methods. Harsh techniques usually don’t work—you need to be gentle and encouraging.
- They’re fine with being left alone Goldendoodles get attached and don’t love being by themselves. With training, they can learn to be okay home alone, but it takes work.
Does size change temperament?
The biggest difference is in energy. Micro Mini Goldendoodles (25 pounds or under) tend to have more energy than mini/mediums or standards, but their temperament is basically the same.
What’s the most important thing to know before bringing one home?
Socialization—especially when they’re young—is the key to a well-rounded, confident Goldendoodle. Expose them to new people, pets, and places early on and you’ll have a happier dog long term.
In closing
Don’t choose based on looks or reputation alone. Goldendoodles are wonderful, but if you aren’t able to give them regular attention and plenty of exercise, you might run into issues. Go with a breed that matches your real lifestyle, and you’ll have a much happier home.