A client recently texted, “He’s the sweetest boy, goofball, and most loving dog ever. Smart too. We love him so much.” That’s exactly what I hear most after someone brings home a Bernedoodle.
My take: the Bernedoodle personality in plain English
If you’re trying to decide between a Goldendoodle or a Bernedoodle because you want a great dog—but not one that’s bouncing off the walls—let me give it to you straight as someone who’s bred these dogs for over ten years.
Bernedoodles are sweet, loving, cuddly, and sometimes just plain silly. They’re some of the kindest family dogs I’ve ever seen. If you want a dog who will love your people and get along great with kids, Bernedoodles deliver every single time. In fact, I’ve even had folks raise them as therapy dogs.
Like Goldendoodles, Bernedoodles are friendly and love being with people. But if you made me pick one as a little more laid-back, the Bernedoodle usually wins. They’re mellow—especially as adults—and pretty content to hang out on the couch with you.
Size matters (sometimes)
Size can play a role, but in my experience, it’s only when you get down to the really tiny micro minis (25 pounds and under) that they can be more energetic. The standard and medium sizes, from about 30 to 60 pounds, are consistently calm. But even the little ones aren’t hyper—they might just have a bit more pep in their step.
What living with a Bernedoodle feels like
Picture a mellow dog who wants nothing more than to be a “couch potato” with you. Bernedoodles love lounging and watching TV. They can have goofy, playful moments, but most of the time, they’ll match your mood. If you’re chill, they’re chill. If you’re up for play, they’ll join in.
They do tend to be a bit clingy. Most Bernedoodles I’ve raised want to be right with their people. While there are the occasional independent personalities, expect a velcro dog who thinks your lap or your side is the place to be.
How much exercise and stimulation do they need?
Bernedoodles need a little of both—mental and physical activity. Toys that make them work for a treat, like puzzle toys or a bit of peanut butter, are great for keeping their minds occupied. Physical exercise is important (they have energy bursts), but you won’t be stuck outside for hours trying to run them tired like with some other breeds. They’re not hyper, just normal dog energy.
Calm companion or goofball?
If you want a calm companion and not a dog that constantly needs a project, Bernedoodles are a safe choice. Sure, there’s always a little variance from dog to dog, but in general, you’re getting a laid-back, happy sidekick.
Bernedoodle vs Goldendoodle: Who’s chiller?
Honestly, their temperaments are really similar. But if you’re hoping for the calmest of the two, Bernedoodle edges out Goldendoodle in most cases. Goldendoodles are sometimes a bit more energetic, though it varies from litter to litter and even between puppy siblings.
Family life and social smarts
Bernedoodles are excellent with kids—they switch from playful to gentle, depending on who they’re with. With seniors, they’re as gentle as can be. They play well with other pets and fit into almost any household routine./imag
They’re usually outgoing and adapt well to new places and new people. Sometimes you’ll meet a shy one, but that’s rare. If you do get a shy puppy, it’s better they join a calmer home (maybe not one with toddlers running wild every day).
Bernedoodles tend to be protective—not aggressive or mean, but they’ll let you know if something’s up, and they want to keep their “pack” safe.
Real feedback: what Bernedoodle owners say
I get feedback from my puppy families all the time. Here’s a recent text:
“Happy Holidays! Here’s Cider, he’s 16 months and 57 pounds. Sweetest boy, goofball, and most loving dog ever. Smart too. We love him so much.”
That’s honestly the overwhelming feedback I get—loving, goofy, smart, and surprisingly laid-back.
People on Reddit say much the same:
“My Bernedoodle is a big, goofy snuggle bug. Much calmer than my Goldendoodle. Great with my kids and cats. A little shy at first but warms up fast.”
Another owner shared, “Hydro is about as laid back as you can get… loyal, protective, happy with strangers once he knows them, and easy to train.”
Are there any downsides?
If there’s one thing to be aware of, it’s stomach issues. Bernedoodles can have sensitive stomachs, so you might run into a few more “soft stool” days than you’d expect. It’s nothing you can’t manage, but it’s worth knowing in advance.
My closing advice if you’re choosing
Honestly, with Bernedoodles, you can hardly make a wrong choice if you’re going with a reputable breeder and a healthy litter. The only exception is if you end up with a shy pup in a very busy, noisy house—that match might not be best for the dog or you.
When you’re stuck deciding between a Goldendoodle and a Bernedoodle, temperament might not be a huge deciding factor. But if you want the most laid-back, easygoing option, Bernedoodle is my safest bet.
Just be ready for a lovable companion who wants to be wherever you are, will lounge on the sofa, and, most of all, will bring a whole lot of joy (and maybe a little goofiness) into your home.
In closing
If you’re leaning toward a Bernedoodle, meet a few in person and see how their personalities match up with your lifestyle. And don’t overthink picking a puppy from a litter—most of the time, you just can’t go wrong.